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Tuesday 16 September 2014

I weep for the 'elites' in my country

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I write with a very heavy heart today. 


I have a theory that has been proven. 97 percent of Nigeria is made up of the masses and the 'elites' make up just 3 percent. Hear me out. If you are reading this or have access to the internet, you are in the three per cent. I have been very generous with defining who falls into the 'elite' category. Please locate yourself in the next two paragraphs.

If you can read and write very well, you are in the three per cent. If you went to school and finished your education, you are in the three per cent. If you went to university in England or anywhere else outside Nigeria, you are in the three percent. If you have lived in any developed country for more than three months, you are in the three per cent. I don't care if you lived in a ghetto in that country, you were exposed to how a normal country runs so you are in the three percent. If you are in the lower-middle class, middle-middle class or upper-middle class, congrats, you are in the three percent. If you found yourself in this paragraph, congratulations. You are in the 2.7percent of the three percent and I weep for you.

Now, the 0.3 percent of the three per cent. If your parents went to school in England or America or Switzerland, you are in the 0.3 per cent. If you went to boarding school in England, you are in the 0.3 per cent. If your grandparents were highly educated and/or professionals, you are in the 0.3 xper cent. That's all. If you found yourself in this paragraph, congrats. I weep for you especially. 

The 97 percent did not go to school or were forced to dropped out at some point. The 97 percent are unemployed, young and angry. The 97 percent can't/won't see this on the internet. The 97 percent don't eat three square meals a day. The 97 percent are grassroot politicians. The 97 per cent are Boko Haram recruitable. 

Now, here's why I weep for the three percent. The Nigerian elite. You think all is well. I'm saying 'you' because if you are reading this, you are in the three percent. You wake up in the morning, dress up and drive to work. Your children go to school right? Or, you get on the flight back to school in England after every holiday in Lagos, right? As long as you are moving forward, all is well right? Wrong. 

In England, their boarding schools are full of two major nationalities. Chinese and Nigerians. I went to a girls boarding school in England at the tender age of 12 and my boarding house was full of Chinese girls. My younger sisters and I were the youngest of all the Nigerian boarders. There was only one British girl in the boarding house. Forgive me for what I want to say now but the Nigerian elite are foolish. To them, the education and exposure is about showing off. The Chinese elite are wise. To them, it's about building China. The Chinese elite parents make sure their children get the British education and then throw them into the Chinese political system. There, they use the exposure they got to further whatever agendas they want. Those children go and add value to China. 

In my own beloved country, those children return and behave like they never left. They return and look down on the political system. They insult it and develop the 'as long as my family and I are okay, all is well' mentality. They return and do not add value to Nigeria. 

Here's why I weep for all of us. A Local Government Area (LGA) in Lagos state is made up of 10 to 12 wards. One ward in Animosho ( an LGA looked down upon in Lagos) has 182 polling booths. The same amount of polling booths as the entire Eti-Osa LGA ( A high brow area) The 97 per cent are actively more involved in the politics of our country than all of us 'elite' 

Here's the saddest part, GRA, Ikeja, Vi and Ikoyi (some highbrow areas) are surrounded by ghettos. If the 97 percent were to revolt, all they have to do is cross over. They are a lot more than us in their numbers that all our security men can't stop them. In America, England and all the other developed countries, the elite are in power. In my wonderful country, you get into power and then become 'elite'. Since the real elites with the best education and exposure look down on them and are too cool for politics, the people in power do as they wish. I weep oh. I weep for us. We are literally sitting and waiting for the 97 per cent to get angrier. 

Here's a story for you. A white taxi driver in London once told my friend's father that he has been driving Nigerian children to school from the airport and back for thirty years. He said that one of the children he used to drive invited him to Lagos and he nearly collapsed at what he saw. Where were all the children that he drove to all those schools from the airport and back? He thought. What did they do with the expensive education they got from England? He told my friend's father that he was so disappointed with what he saw in Lagos and Nigeria. When my friend's dad reached his destination, he gave the taxi driver a tip but the man returned it and said, please use that money to transform your country.


I weep for us because we really don't understand how critical Nigeria's situation is. I weep for the Nigerian 'elite' because they are meant to be the bright ones but they are so stupid. 

With all my love,

Dara Rhodes

Tuesday 2 September 2014

Allow me introduce, Feyikemi, the thought provoker.



 The devastating news of the Ebola outbreak in Lagos has led to gross agitation nationwide leaving many in a state of both panic and paranoia.

          Photo: Mashable.com


As a result the “Bring back our Girls campaign” has had to take a seat behind the frantic efforts to contain the virus. It is imperative however that the “Bring back our Girls” campaign continues to thrive despite the outbreak of Ebola.This is because although the focus of the country has switched from halting Boko Haram activities to eradicating the Ebola virus, Boko Haram show no signs of ending their reign of terror.

The Boko Haram has long been the cause of the festering wounds of Nigeria. For the past 5 years Nigeria has suffered the loss of over 5,000 of her civilians solely as a result of the Boko Haram. The group notorious for its use of violence as a means of campaign now claims lives at a rate of 200 per week. In just a few days it will be 20 weeks since the abduction of the 279 girls in Chibok. It has been reported that 100 boys were kidnapped by Boko Haram 2 weeks ago. The latest from the terror group is the use of 10 year old girls as suicide bombers. It appears that the terrorists have no intention of quitting but instead are devising novel ways to ensure they are carried out successfully.

The Rwanda genocide should serve as a warning to Nigeria. Earlier this year at the “Understanding early warning of mass atrocities twenty years after the genocide in Rwanda” forum,The Deputy Secretary-General of the UN emphasized the importance of every leadership team in ensuring equality and discourage forms of polarization, religious or racial, to prevent future occurrences like that of the Rwandan Genocide. In Nigeria,we now see the result of the Government's inability to unify the religious divide - the rise of extreme Islamic extremist insurgency.

The “Bring back our Girls” campaign serves as a platform for both the Nigerian and International communities to prevent the Nigerian syndrome in which injustice is swept underneath the rug from kicking in. Now is the time for us Nigerians to push our Government to take action. Failure on our part can only lead to calamitous circumstances.  The pressing need for such a campaign as the "Bring back our Girls" can therefore not be over emphasised.
Lots of love (Lol),
Feyikemi

Feyikemi Rhodes is an 18 year old Nigerian girl who has been in boarding school in England since she was 10 years old. She loves writing, fashion and her country, Nigeria but above all she loves music. She is currently preparing to go to New York for college to study literary studies and will be a frequent contributor/Writer on Exposed Lagosian. Her views are quite different from mine and are thus very welcome.